Weight loss surgery – the same question keeps coming up.

Are you almost – but not quite ready to have weight loss surgery?

My business is to guide you through the weight loss surgery crazies, including the number one question:

Is having weight loss surgery right for me?

I’ve been thinking about it for so damn long, and I’m tired, so tired to the point of ignoring the subject completely or wishing for a big dark rabbit hole to escape into. But it keeps coming back up.

It’s not like I can hide it.

It’s out in the open for all to see, I’m a big person- both in personality and body size. Every day I hear something about Obesity in the news, in magazines, in everyday conversation. It’s hammered into our brains over and over ad nauseum.

Because we’re sick to death of hearing about it, friends and family have moved on from addressing subject with me directly.

(We just worry silently now)

My sister, my best friend who loves me utterly, completely, unconditionally — knows I’ll figure it out one day. Yet I can feel the concern in her eyes when she thinks I’m not looking, and I can hear her thoughts like she’s speaking out loud:

Val is so beautiful, and I notice she’s having trouble moving, breathing. She gets so tired…she’s not going out as much after work and staying home more. We don’t talk or see each other so often anymore.

Fuck! Yes sis – I hear you. I know all this. I’m worried too, and honestly? It’s easier to be alone and shut out the noise while I figure it out.

These kinds of things are on my mind:

If I have this surgery — Will I be beautiful and safe at the same time?

Can I be myself or will things be different if I have this procedure – (or if I don’t)?

Who will I be afterward – and as I move through the weeks, months, or years to come?

In your heart of hearts, you want to be done with the wondering. Even if it means the surgery is not for you. You want and answer, now.

Exactly dear, I’ve been there. I understand and have experienced first hand those concerned looks and awkward silences in the middle of conversations.

I know you’re beginning to avoid certain situations because you’re tired of explaining or feeling like you have to explain.

You’d like off this avoidance/wondering see saw merry-go-round once and for all. (quickly please…)

Let’s stop the ride…

…and figure out your truth about whether or not weight loss surgery is the right option for you.

Time to exit Wonderland and get clear.

The surgery decision process can be long and hard – but what if it were easy? It absolutely can be! Time saved, knots in your brain gone, and you clear once and for all.

You – swift and decisive about this decision, just like you are in other areas of your life.

You will cease talking to others and start listening to you.. You know what’s important to you, what gives you pleasure, and that you’re whole whether or not you choose surgery as an option.

This realization alone will save you from going through the insanity of doing yet another diet.

This is freedom. Finally confident and comfortable with your body & weight changes – and not being ruled by the scale.

How does that sound?

What else could you move on to if you weren’t consumed with this question? What interesting higher level conversations would you have? What problems would you move on to solve and what bigger picture would you be a part of?

This – can happen for you, and soon too. I’m excited to see it and want that for you more than anything.

After our conversation, you’ll know whether or not surgery is right for you. Are you ready?

You’re not alone – my dear, that is very clear. Let’s talk.

Love,

 

First step - get in touch with me at linda@lindaeaves.com.

I’ll answer you personally and send some questions (two, at the most three) to see where you’re at. I do this to see if we’d be a good fit for each other. You’ve spent enough time on this already, I want to be respectful and not waste any more of it.

If we fit…(and how lovely!)

…then we’d talk. We’ll find a mutually agreeable time to connect on Skype and see quickly our best next step.
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